9 Qualities To Become The Perfect Leader

 
Who is a leader? In the scheme of things, it begs the question. We would be defining a leader based on the 3P’s mnemonic – Person, People and Purpose. Simply put, a leader is a person who motivates/influences a group of people towards a certain purpose.

A leader leads by example, so that others are motivated to follow him. This is a basic requirement that inspires all other requirements as well as expectations from the subjects of his leadership.

5 Things Your Pee Is Trying To Tell You

You know that you’ve had your share of water/beer/coffee by the frequency in which you need to use the bathroom, but what else can pee tell you about your health and habits? A lot, it turns out. We asked R. Mark Ellerkmann, M.D., director for the Center of Urogynecology at the Weinberg Center for Women’s Health and Medicine in Baltimore, MD, for some of the specific health and lifestyle issues your urine’s odor, color, and frequency can indicate.

You’re pregnant
The reason you have to pee on a stick after your first missed period is that shortly after conception (when a fertilized egg implants into the lining of the uterus), the fetus begins to secrete the hormone human chorionic gonadotropin, or hCG, which is what is detected by home pregnancy tests, Dr. Ellerkmann says. Some women also notice a strong, pungent odor early on, even before they’re aware they’re pregnant.

New Movie: Shattered Lives

2016 seems to be unfolding in a much interesting way as the Chairman of the Shatta Movement Crew features in a new film with Bisa Kdei, Majid Michel, Martha Ankomah and Bismark the Joke. Shattered Lives is a production from GhanaOriginal. The film tells a story of love, deceit, infidelity and violence in marriages.

The plot of the story is an intense drama packed which tackles some of the most disheartening issues in marriages. The movie was directed by Okechukwu Onyeka.
Watch and enjoy the trailer below.

How To Cope With Your Breakup Without Falling Apart

Love is magical at the first stage of every relationship, every seems perfect like nothing can ever go wrong. It feels like paradise and you and your partner are the only ones in a big romantic garden. Most times after a breakup, you just want to lock yourself away from the world and cry your eyes out. As much as it’s good to let out your pain, it’s not okay if you dwell in your misery for too long.

Here are some tips of ways to cope with your breakup without falling apart.
1. Build your confident.
Your past relationship can leave you feeling not only depressed, but unclear about who you really are. So, first, regroup. Feel free to sit still (and even analyze) for a few weeks, as suppressed grief sticks around, but don’t linger here for months!

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Dont know if she really loved me in the first place

Am Mark by name,i was in a relationship with a girl who is 2 years older to me she is 34 and i am 32 , we were together for over 8 months during which i got to know about her past ,her having more than 8exes really threw me over the edge , i wanted to end it just then but she said that she would do something to herself if i left her , i was scared and partly i had started falling for her. So I stayed the relationship blossomed I had to go overseas for some medical training for 8 months

Husbands, Love Your Wives

SOME men make their wives beg for everything they need/want. You keep her at home while her mates are doing something useful with their lives. She cooks, cleans, and attends to you. These are things some working class people don’t do for their husbands.

Release the woman to fly and be successful like her fellow women; you won’t do that. Okay; on your instruction, she sits at home from morning till night and earns nothing to take care of herself. The poor woman has to beg and crawl on the floor for her master before she gets money to buy sanitary pad. What about clothes and cosmetics? That shouldn’t be mentioned as the same man who crippled her is the one reminding her that her mates are top CEOs.

Finding The Love You Deserve This Coming Year

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THE new-year is just around the corner and for many of us, December is a great time to reflect on the past year and to make a few New Year’s resolutions.

It is also a time to wipe the slate clean of all our shortcomings, past mistakes and missed opportunities and begin again with a renewed focus on fulfilling our hopes and dreams.

But all too often, we find ourselves, once again, at the end of a year with little change from the year before.
Those dreams of finding Mr. Right or your resolve to quit being a doormat to a dead-end relationship are still unrealised. And you wonder once again why you cannot seem to make things stick.

I lost her cos I cared less

I was in a more than 2 years relationship with my girlfriend. She was more than serious for me…
There were lots of fights going on between us but we always stuck around for each other.  I used to take her for granted and was never sure of my feelings for her but I cared for her the most. Recently we had a fight and she said she doesn’t feel like being in the relation anymore.

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Keeping The Passion Hot

“And because iniquity shell abound, the love of many shall wax cold” (Matthew 24 vs. 12).
“Where no wood is, there the fire goeth out… as coals are to burning coals and wood to fire” (Prov 26 vs. 20-21).
The Bible teaches that many waters cannot quench love. Love is like a hot magma; it runs warm. Love may be calm, but it is never enjoyed cold.

In marriage, family life, relationship, what keeps what we feel for someone on for a lifetime is beyond the first spark. A match may start a spark of fire, but it would need gas to sustain the fire.

I always thought acting bad roles will make people hate me – Patience Ozokwor

Legendary Nollywood actress, Patience Ozokwor, has explained why she always plays ‘bad’ roles in almost all the movies she features in.
Patience, who is undoubtedly known for playing evil-inclined roles, such as “wicked mother-in-law,” told Yes magazine that ‘acting bad roles is just her trade mark’ as many others also act different kind of roles and they are known for it.

She said, “People should admit that I have something to play! People are known for stunts, romance, bad boys and girls, gigolo and so on, but I have that as my strong point. It was when I was coming up that I thought I might get hurt or being hated for playing those roles but I never knew it was going to even make me popular and loved.

Don’t turn Davido to an ATM, get a job – Dr. Ola Balogun tells Sophia Momodu

Nigerian movie maker and musician, Dr. Ola Balogun, has waded into Davido and his babymama saga.
The veteran film maker, via a letter to the Nation, addressing Davido babymama saga, expressed disappointment and condemned in totality the role played by Ovation magazine boss, Dele Momodu.
He also charged Sophia Momodu to get a job to support her lifestyle and not turn Davido into an Automated Teller Machine, ATM.

The letter reads in part, “I was heartbroken to read about what young Mr. Adeleke has been going through at the hands of Mr. and Mrs. Dele Momodu and their neice (or cousin?).

Davido’s babymama writes laboratory, demands original copy of pathology report

Following the allegation that a medical report had showed that Sophie Momodu, Davido’s baby mama had cannabis in her breast milk due to excessive consumption of the substance, the estranged baby mama has requested for further details of the medical reports from the clinic.

Recall that the singer had alleged that a pathology test was conducted in which it was determined that his daughter, Imade, was fed with breast milk contaminated with cannabis.

Cossy Orjiakor says she will marry this year

Nollywood Queen of Boobs, Cossy Orjiakor has revealed that she would settle down this new year.
The controversial actress, who is known for flaunting her cleavages online, said she will finally become a ‘Mrs’ in 2016.

 


“Hello 2016…I started this year with work… Helping out… Almost like charity…. That’s when I know It’s gonna be a good year…. This year I will finally become Mrs Cossy Ojiakor……… Fill in the blank space hahhahhaha,” she wrote on her instagram page.

Angola hold Nigeria in CHAN 2016 warm-up match

The home-based teams of Angola and Nigeria played out a 1-1 draw in a friendly match in Pretoria, South Africa on Wednesday.

Adepoju backs Amuneke for Glo/CAF award

 

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Mutiu Adepoju has tipped Nigeria Under-17 team coach, Emmanuel Amuneke, to win an award at the 2015 Glo/CAF Awards in Abuja on Thursday.

Amuneke has been nominated for Coach of The Year along with former Ivory Coast coach, Herve Renard, Etoile du Sahel coach, Fawzi Benzarti, and CAF Champions League-winning coach TP Mazembe’s Patrice Carteron.

Glo-CAF Awards: Renard ahead of Amuneke

FIFA U-17 World Cup-winning coach Emmanuel Amuneke will most likely surrender the CAF Coach of the year 2015 award to Herve Renard, who led Cote d’Ivoire to win a long-awaited AFCON trophy in Equatorial Guinea in February.

The 2015 AFCON win was after 23 years of wait by the Ivorians who last celebrated AFCON success in 1992.

Renard also led unfancied Zambia to win the 2012 AFCON in Gabon, incidentally at the expense of Cote d’Ivoire.

Amuneke-Herve

Former FC Barcelona winger Amuneke, on the other hand, led Nigeria to win the FIFA U17 World Cup in November in Chile.

Coaches Who Need To Prove A Point In NPFL This Season

The 2014/2015 Nigeria Professional Football League witnessed some tactically astute managers deliver top notch knowledge of the game (football), leading their respective teams to greater heights.

But with a new season just around the corner, lovers of the local league are expecting to see more managers translate their ability and knowledge of the game into remarkable success in the football world.
It is in this regard, Naij.com has compiled a list of managers to watch out for as the 2015/2016 Nigeria Professional Football League gets underway in some couple of days.

1. Kennedy Boboye – Abia Warriors

What Kennedy Boboye could achieve last season with Sunshine Stars is commendable and deserves him a place on this list.

Glo/CAF: Ikpeba, Okocha tip Toure, Oliseh wants Ayew

Pius Ayinor and Idris Adesina

Top Nigeria football celebrities have pitched their tents behind different players as the Glo/CAF African Footballer of The Year awards hold in Abuja on Thursday. While a former African Footballer of The Year Victor Ikpeba and former Eagles captain Austin Okocha are fully behind Yaya Toure to keep the title, Super Eagles coach Sunday Oliseh has emotionally put his cash on Andre Ayew.

Oliseh, who is Pretoria, South Africa with the Eagles preparing for the African Nations Championships told The PUNCH, “I think Ayew deserves it to stop the monotony.”

Psquare star signs artiste Muno to record label

The Psquare singer made the announcement on social media, welcoming the newly signed act to the label.

Paul Okoye
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Paul Okoye has announced the signing of a new artiste Muno, to their record label, Square Records.

The Psquare singer made the announcement on social media, welcoming the newly signed act to the label.

“Ladies and gentlemen, It's a new year 2016. I present to you all "Muno" my new artiste, a singer, best voice ever!!” Paul announced.

NAPTIP quizzes Davido over alleged baby abduction

23-yr-old pop star, David Adeleke, popularly known as Davido, on Wednesday visited the Lagos State office of the National Agency for the Prohibition of Trafficking in Persons (NAPTIP), over the ongoing child rift with his baby mama, Mrs. Sophia Momodu.

According to sources at NAPTIP, Davido reportedly arrived at the agency at 11:07am.
It was learnt that his statement on the face-off over the custody of the relationship between him and the estranged mother of his daughter, Sophia, was taken by NAPTIP.

The whole drama started after Sophia who is a cousin of popular journalist, Dele Momodu, wrote a petition against the musician through her lawyer, Mr. Gbolaga Ajayi.

Ajayi while seeking protection for the rights of his client, petitioned the NAPTIP as the case borders on child abduction and trafficking.

Recall that Davido’s father, Dr. Deji Adeleke and Momodu, paid an earlier visit to the NAPTIP office on Monday for a meeting.

However, Dr. Adeleke was said to have stormed out of the meeting barely 30 minutes after it started.